So you’ve got a freedom-loving Sagittarius on your hands and you wonder if he’ll ever settle down. This handy guide to the signs can help you tell whether you’ve got a roamer or a future husband on your hands.
Commitment Phobe: He’s only interested when you’re not available and spends more time with his favorite sports team than with you.
Marriage Material: He enjoys discovering new challenges for the two of you to face together, like rock climbing or experimenting with different lifestyles.
Commitment Phobe: Hasn’t made any major life changes in aeons and it seems unlikely that he ever will. Would rather stay at home in his easy recliner than go out with you.
Marriage Material: Plans for your future together, he’s probably already even got a savings account set aside to pay for your wedding.
Commitment Phobe: Hard to pin down in words, actions or thought. Never exactly where you thought he would be and very flirtatious with other women.
Marriage Material: Interested and engaged in what you have to say. Admires your intelligence and wit.
Commitment Phobe: Most of your dates involve his family and he’s constantly comparing you to his mother.
Marriage Material: Talks about how safe and comfortable you make him feel and wants to nest with you in a home that you share together.
Commitment Phobe: More interested in how you make him look to others than in who you are as a person. Lavish, but over-the-top displays of affection that don’t really have much to do with you personally.
Marriage Material: You feel like his queen and know that you’re his number one. He makes you the center of his universe.
Commitment Phobe: Nitpicky and constantly analyzing the flaws in you and your relationship. Never seems satisfied with what the two of you have together.
Marriage Material: Thoughtful and dedicated to your happiness, tries to find little ways to make you happy and show that he cares.
Commitment Phobe: Would rather go to a party and spend time circulating than go on a one-on-one date with you. More charming and attentive to you in front of your friends than he is to you when you are alone
Marriage Material: Spends time planning romantic interludes for the two of you to share together. Negotiates and strategizes ways to make your relationship strong and long-lasting.
Commitment Phobe: Only seems interested in sex and doesn’t seem to have much availability when it comes to just hanging out.
Marriage Material: Wants to know every aspect of you inside and out. Makes time in his schedule to spend just with you and wants to focus on your deepest thoughts and feelings.
Commitment Phobe: Hard to get a hold of and constantly on the move. You’re never sure when you will see him next. More interested in partying with his buddies than one-on-one time with you.
Marriage Material: Invites you along on his adventures and is excited about your participation. Plans exciting getaways for just the two of you.
Commitment Phobe: Spends time planning for a future that doesn’t seem to include you. More interested in his bottom line than romantic time.
Marriage Material: Asks you questions like “where do you see yourself 10 years from now?” and seems enthused if you seem him as part of your future.
Commitment Phobe: Won’t make any kind of commitment and prefers to keep an open relationship with you, long past the initial dating stage.
Marriage Material: Has all kinds of innovative ideas about your future together, wants to introduce you to his friends and wants to meet yours.
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Commitment Phobe: Wishy-washy and vague when it comes to any kind of plan you want to make. Never can pin him down as to his feelings for you.
Marriage Material: Spends a lot of his time coming up with creative, romantic ways to express his feelings for you. Would rather daydream in your presence than be alone.
Sherene Schostak is a Jungian psychotherapist, author and metaphysician who specializes in helping creative artists transform their addictions and blocks. She has been in private practice in New York City for the past 13 years consulting, writing and... read more