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Paula Abdul
June 19, 1962
2:32 PM
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Introduction to the Centaur Reading

This interpretation of your chart focuses on Centaurs. Centaurs are asteroids with several properties in common, one of which is that they travel from deep regions of our solar system to within the orbit of Jupiter. They are similar to comets but are larger. The first Centaur discovered was Chiron in the year 1977. Chiron was first thought to be a kind of planet, but is now considered a Centaur by most astronomers.

Now you might be thinking "Oh, gosh! More teensy things to consider in my horoscope. Doesn't the chart have enough going on as it is?" Consider that astrologers use one planet, Venus, to describe the vast areas of love, art, and beauty in our lives. The asteroids add depth and detail to the astrological analysis, enabling us to see more specific issues.

When the first Centaur, Chiron, came to our attention, he was greeted with mixed feelings. Some, considering this body very difficult to define (planet, asteroid, comet?), saw it as a nuisance. Others remained sure of his importance. It would appear that those astrologers possessed a vision of better things to come.

Ultimately, Chiron emerged as a potent teacher, healer, shaman leading us all through previously unremovable wounds - whether psychological or spiritual. His urging to fully invest the spirit in the body and involve oneself in life now stands as the leading wave of soulful healing. His demonstration of the essentiality of relationship between body and spirit now stands accepted, intact and most importantly, significant in all of our personal healing efforts.

Now Chiron has five named Centaur siblings: Pholus, Nessus, Asbolus, Chariklo and Hylonome. Suggestions exists for yet another named body, Pylenor, which is awaiting astronomical nomenclature protocols. Ultimately, all the other Centaurs will receive names as well.

Each Centaur appears with a solution to a common social malady of today's complicated society and associated psychological and psychic backlash. The integration of these bodies provides us with simple, consciousness-oriented ceremonies and healing techniques to enhance our coping skills. The Centaurs restore our sensibilities - literally, our ability to use our senses, emotions and body perceptions - ranging from an instinctive nose to chill bumps - thereby increasing our humanness. In a time when the array of electronic communication and technology decreases our sentient involvement in our lives, the Centaurs appear to restore our senses and sensibilities.

The Centaur clan offers valuable attributes in our everyday life, psychological healing and spiritual growth. Consider the powerful remedies offered by these bodies:

Chiron - healing psychic wounds of rejection, restoring spirit to body
Pholus - overcoming substance abuses, restoring peacefulness of spirit, use of daily ritual
Nessus - defining need and want in money and relationships with healthy balance
Asbolus - development of and use of full intuitive faculties
Chariklo - assessing personal boundaries, both psychologically and energetically
Hylonome - healing grief and regret

As you welcome the primal gathering of Centaurs into your horoscope, you will enjoy enhanced awareness of emotion, passion for life, quest for purpose and sensorial reactions to all situations. Saddle up and ride these tiny, yet potent, bodies, for a celestial journey to self understanding, compassion and well-being. Enjoy!



Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listed below:

Sun     28 Gem 06                   N. Node   11 Leo 01
Moon    21 Cap 09                   Asc.      18 Lib 49
Mercury 11 Gem 51                   MC        20 Can 42
Venus    3 Leo 09                   Chiron    10 Pis 52
Mars    16 Tau 11                   Pholus    16 Aqu 15
Jupiter 12 Pis 26                   Nessus     0 Gem 50
Saturn  10 Aqu 44                   Asbol not found  1 Ari 00
Uranus  27 Leo 20                   Chari not found  1 Ari 00
Neptune 11 Sco 00                   Hylon not found  1 Ari 00
Pluto    7 Vir 46

Aspects and orbs:
Conjunction:  5 Deg 00 Min          Trine   :  4 Deg 00 Min
Opposition :  5 Deg 00 Min          Sextile :  3 Deg 00 Min
Square     :  4 Deg 00 Min          Quincunx:  3 Deg 00 Min

Chiron

For those people feeling rejected by parents and carrying that banner throughout life, relief is near. Should you be sensing wounds that simply will not leave no matter what is done, a solution stands near. And if feelings of displacement, alienation and disconnection prevail within yourself, the healer has arrived. Soon, with use of the essence of this relatively new healer, Chiron, the way clears for a stronger sense of self with spirit invested in body. This sense of self works to reestablish healthy relationships with others.

Chiron was the wounded healer, or the healer who wounds. His mode of healing works to bring up the hidden issues, overcome denial, offer penance, then go on in greatness. He was one of the immortals, with a god as a father who rejected the son. The mother disowned him because of his ugliness (half man, half horse). With no place to go, Chiron became an avid learner studying with the great ones, devouring all knowledge. Accidentally wounded at an event using ceremonial wine unceremoniously, his immortality became a liability as the healer could not heal his own wound. He persisted in life feeling pain that he, the healer, could not heal. His pain includes parental rejection, unworthiness and in today's terms, soul loss.

Chiron opted to end the eternal pain at all costs. He took a voluntary task in the underworld, coming out with the ability to ascend to the heavens as granted by Zeus (Jupiter). He represents being able to take on healing directly, clearly and intently. He symbolizes our willingness to go into the caves of consciousness and examine our nature. He grieves, then heals. This powerful healer comes before us encouraging the clearing of all things within our psyche. After this occurs the path opens for our spirits to fully fuse with our physical being.


Chiron Square Mercury,  Orb: 0 deg. 59 min.

It goes both ways with your verbal exchanges. In as much as others seem to possess an amazingly sharp ability to slice to the bone of your doubts, you can do the same. This unintentional verbal barrage would be better intercepted sooner rather than later. If you think it through, the images of Chiron being the healer who wounds become impeccably lucid. You cut to the chase, call it as you see it and agitate the other person into self reflection and healing. Meanwhile, even on your best day, others possess the ability to derail your mental train with similar verbal phrases slung your way. The process remains one of disciplining the mind. Define the thoughts that impede you and put them in your recycle bin. Remember to empty after each entry. Clarify thoughts that feed you. Use only the thoughts that nurture you. Embellish them. Consider these affirmations with the intent of intelligence. Your most important dialogue becomes conscious and clear. That would be the inner dialogue, of course.

Chiron Conjunct Jupiter,  Orb: 1 deg. 34 min.

Face it. You are a teacher. Teach what you know. Should one of your life lessons be in current progress, know the limits. If you are asked to do that class concerning that lesson, qualify your information. Or don't do the class. This is a not a matter of teaching what you need to learn. That is a flawed path. This is a matter of certainty. Should your money be in weird flux, decline to counsel in fiscal matters. Be the wise mentor. Know your lesson plans. But also know others will seek you out prior to your sense of readiness. A fine line of discernment of knowing lives here. What do you know? Simple. What beliefs do you carry in life with every action you take? That's what you know. Receiving what you desire to absorb from the ultimate expert, in a one to one interaction, fills in all remaining uncertainties. Of course, as soon as this lesson is understood, you'll be expected to return the favor. Altering beliefs changes troubled minds. Mental acuity offers insight.

Chiron Trine Neptune,  Orb: 0 deg. 08 min.

You have a free pass to travel into the heavens whenever you want. Your consciousness drifts in and out of your being without the need for any passport. Simply you get to take your attitudes and emotions on refreshing spirit driven vacation many times a day. This way you stay invigorated, attentive and involved in your life. While you're traveling take some time to notice directives, ceremonies and healing rituals that come to mind in those lofty, inspired places. It would be recommended that these be brought back with you. Should you explore the full extent of these insightful gifts, you'll find your involvement in the real world getting easier. Thus you need less of the escapist type of reverie. You spirit driven retreats into the ethers maintain more of defined quality. They, too, become more powerful. You probably are beginning to realize that you can create awesome incantations, chants, songs, prayers, affirmations and ceremonies for yourself and the rest of the planet. Raise your spirit. Raise your voice. Raise the rafters.

Chiron Opposition Pluto,  Orb: 3 deg. 06 min.

The teachers come to you. Usually you can't remember asking for one. But nonetheless, here's the big kahuna and with a huge bag of tricks. Come on down and play the teacher says. Like you have a choice. You are fully aware no real option exists here. This teacher might even tell you they were sent to you. They don't ask. They tell. Go for it. If you don't, the sink of life clogs forcing a call to the ultimate plumber. This process seems like a broken record. Bear in mind previous teachers/healers/mentors do not abandon you. They simply plop you down in a place where the next one can find you. This aspect actually contains many blessings. Whenever a life difficulty becomes insurmountable, the teacher with the greatest expertise in the problem area magically appears. Part of the good karma profile, the tasks before you require constant, intentional work. The benefits come in the form of metamorphic transformations as if a million butterflies store their magic in your spirit. Next thing you know, you'll have at your fingertips the ability to pop open the tightly woven cocoons of others.

Chiron Quincunx N. Node, Orb: 0 deg. 09 min.

When you find yourself getting just a bit testy with others, it's time for necessary introspection. The urge to judge, condemn and be unnecessarily harsh with others comes from a subconscious awareness of an out of sorts part within your spirit. Internally, something requires rectification. It's not always you that's wrong, though, in case that's how it feels. It's you that stands big enough to make any necessary adjustments within yourself for full and complete body/spirit balance. Shedding the ego remains a theme of your life. This shedding, though, comes from realizing the ego's reactions, savoring them and releasing them. While these adjustments might seem huge at the beginning, they're not. Rain storms always look darkest when the Sun shines on them. Show others the way of fluidity in change by gearing up and creating initial momentum.

Pholus

Perhaps a sense of listlessness in life encourages one to eat too much or too little. Maybe even taking on alcohol or other substances as a substitute for contentment becomes the way one copes. The Centaur Pholus appears to remind us of what it is that actually lies beneath these physical urges to compensate or over-compensate in life.

Pholus appears at just the right time to remind people of the needs of spirit. While he signifies everything about food and drink, he also stresses the idea that all things intending to nurture our beings remain powerful ceremonies. Pholus indicates diet patterns, especially methods of cooking and even the type of diet including carnivorous or vegetarian ways. His attitude toward drink, most especially alcohol, insists that it be offered ceremoniously. The custom of toasting with wine (or whatever is the alcohol of choice) comes from Pholus. Blessing food symbolizes a Pholus thought. He represents use or abuse of all physical substances, alcohol being the most significant of his concerns.

Ultimately Pholus reminds us of the need to fill our daily lives with those things that are good - and only good - for us. He establishes awareness of necessary limits and requirements. He goes even further in that he offers the reminder (and often a stern one) that your daily routine must include your spiritual drill: saying grace, toasting, a daily meditation, smudging, ceremonial cleansing or whatever comes under his wise and watchful eye. Should things feel out of sorts, offer simpler, reverent acts every day. Watch the restlessness subside and the sense of well-being begin.


Pholus Square Mars,  Orb: 0 deg. 04 min.

Knowing better impedes no action. The instinctive part of you either doesn't believe that consequence follows a simple transgression - or doesn't care. Transgression implies going against any well-founded sense of inner knowing. You either go against this to prove you possess greater will than that of Cosmic Law, to fortify your personal sense of magic or simply because your urges exceed reason. Regardless, should any consequence come your way, no fair grumbling. Sometimes these episodes of going against the grain try to trick your ego into accepting the agenda of spirit. For instance, promoting the free flow of wine with an almost special someone might reduce your reserves that block pursuing a fuller embrace. You fall into that intimate thing instead of the love thing. While this is not recommended action, the thrust here asks you to carefully and deliberately use every act in life as a ceremony of honoring the great desires of your spirit. Your sole concern is that of letting your loving soul guide all your instincts. With that, no cave-ins of consciousness need be feared.

Pholus Trine Asc.,  Orb: 2 deg. 34 min.

People flock to you like some sort of guru or something. Gosh, where does that come from? Even the simplest afternoon tea you lay out turns into a "let's solve the struggles of humanity" session. People chat about all this stuff, while you listen, amazed. Then, the tide turns - so do the heads in the room - and all to face you. They ask not only what you think, but what you'd do if you were in that situation. That's heavy. Lighten it up. Restore the celebration. Focus on the sense of relief that comes when following the path of resolution. Point out that joy follows. See, you just did the guru thing. You elevated, enlightened and lightened the environment. That's what people come to expect from you. Honor the fact that when you've got your own soul felt thing going, people breathe a sigh of relief as soon as you enter the room. In fact, why not breathe that in yourself? It restarts the healthy circulation of the air supply. All stale smells filter out without being masked by a cheap green pine tree thing. The smell of real nature - spirit nature - permeates the air.

Nessus

It's been said that money and sex are only important when you don't have them. Whether or not this is true is up for grabs. But what we can derive from this saying is that two issues of importance to the human spirit are money and sex. In fact, under extreme circumstances, people can be observed demonstrating the best and worst of human characteristics with these issues at hand. Witness the excited glow of a lottery winner. Look hard to see the collapsed aura of a person dealing with insurmountable debt. Examine the fractured aura of a lover rejected for a younger more attractive partner. Consider the radiant glow of someone newly in love. Watch what happens as people discover that they simply cannot live without a certain thing, economic status or the love person in their life. These issues receive impeccable clarification from the Centaur Nessus.

Nessus refers to a level of desire that goes beyond need. Wanting more, coveting or even qualities of lust fall under his influence. Nessus refers to the two juicy areas of life: monetary matters and intimate relationships. He seeks out the things you unconsciously want but might not be able to articulate. He notes those things you feel you do not deserve, yet crave. First, though, he uncovers urges and desires that may not feel comfortable to your "I am a good person," belief system. But he transforms all negatives if given a chance. He works with you to ensure you enjoy the bounty of your relationship with healthy abundance. Nessus observes your financial state in life, then offers his position on what would really make you feel good in an unlimited way. Ultimately, Nessus' balance would be to have enough money not to need more and not so much that it consumes your time and thoughts.

Nessus is a powerful healer. He insists that you open yourself to the realm of sensuality in life. Smell flowers, taste food, feel the air, enjoy touch, savor success and feel everything fully. He provides the ultimate in healing issues of converting poverty to abundance. He brings about the exchange of lust, shame and guilt for healthy physical enjoyment of life, whether explored intimately with another or in one's relationship with the Creator.


Nessus Sextile Venus,  Orb: 2 deg. 19 min.

The ideas of how to get what you want come easily. In fact, these insights might seem insignificant. But bear in mind that inspirations dealing with abundance agendas - both in romantic adventure and financial enterprise - need full and complete use. This ensures you do not thumb your nose at Universal Understanding. When you put these ideas in play, life gets even easier. For you, the evolution in work and the associated economic compensation readily improves. State the need, mean it, then get it. Similarly, when you use the images you receive in love matters, that too, becomes easier and nearly effortless. Others observe the simplicity of your life. They might respond less than favorably. It's just envy. Should this occur the ideas you use just need to be shared. Your expertise becomes known. Your ideas receive dispersion, which is part of the plan after all. Your Nessus job is the unenviable one of leading people effortlessly across the straits of highly charged emotional rivers.


Nessus Square Uranus,  Orb: 3 deg. 30 min.

You can't force others to do it for you. No matter how much pressure you exert, they cannot provide you with that warm, fuzzy feeling inside. Whether talking about the illuminating glow of success or the feeling of success in intimate love bonding, it's the same deal. The reaction is yours. No one else can generate that. Granted, they might contribute something significant. How you respond is how you respond. The key to happiness in life - in love - in work - is how you respond. Looks like a response system that supports your greatest needs and desires would be about right. Some assessment of what those needs are helps. Wanting to feel exactly like someone you observe as being content might be a set up for failure. Perhaps having what they're having might not ring your personal chime. Take a moment. Figure out what you really want. Chime in with a resonant tone of appeal without discord. Deal only with those people responding favorably. Forcing the fit of your needs on to unwilling sorts not only impinges on their freedom, it limits your freest expression of joy as well. Without forcing yourself, relax and settle into the world of satisfaction.

Asbolus

Ever have one of those moments in which you went against the flash of insight you received? Such situations become more glaring if life tosses back some sort of difficulty, like exactly the one of which you were forewarned. When you feel like leading the charge up some sort of symbolic mountain to take on a perilous task, do you ever ponder what the outcome might be?

Asbolus, another of our Centaur guides, represents the best in intuitive awareness. Asbolus reflects good counsel given and not heeded, or good advice received and not heeded. Usually the results of not heeding such input become immediately apparent. The urge to veto one of those insightful flashes falls under the visionary gaze of Asbolus. The insight just seemed to be a logical projection. There was nothing psychic about it. "What are the odds of that," Asbolus nudges again. The odds seem high at the moment. He urges absolute attentiveness to futuristic impressions. Stop while you're ahead. No need to take on challenges from an unnecessary argument or death-defying tasks, or push your personal limits. Back off, relax and contemplate.

Asbolus further represents the loss of guidance or wisdom because of alcohol. He points out how judgment, physical and otherwise, degrades when intoxicated. His alternative would suggest that when life feels all-consuming, reinvoke a ceremonial situation to clear the mind. This effort restores strong judgment that supports the spirit and reinstates the intuitive faculties to full potency. Regardless, following intuition remains his determined influence.


Asbol not found Square Sun,  Orb: 0 deg. 54 min.

You ask for guidance about the action you should take in your immediate situation. You clearly receive the input. Then you play the odds in your mind. What are the chances that if you do what you want things will still go awry? According to this signature, the odds run high that things will backfire. This pattern insists upon impeccable adherence to guidance received. Of course, you could back it up a bit and ponder what would happen if you don't ask for wise input. The deal here notes that your sense is still that guidance would be in order. If you have the urge to seek wise counsel and don't, then it's the same thing as not listening to good input. The complicated way this shows up is that you already know that the urge for guidance vetoes your current agenda. Try using simple images of greens lights for go ahead and red lights for no way. Of course, the yellow lights remain subject to all kinds of subjective reads. Follow your nose. This way you can avoid psychic color blindness.

Asbol not found Quincunx Uranus, Orb: 1 deg. 40 min.

Guidance is yours. Following the guidance grants you a merciful path in life. Mercy in this sense means that your efforts are seen as good, well intended and seeking to fulfill the mission of life. Avoiding the guidance granted produces a merciless reaction from the ethers. Your skill and ability is to cut a concise course through the granite that clearly defines the needs of your spirit. The beacon relentlessly beams its repetitive message. There is a tirelessness to insight. It never leaves this pattern. It will not abandon the seeker. However, the seeker may choose to exclude the insight. Exclusion of intuition, psychic input or whatever one might call it opens the floodgates of the wrath of God. Bear in mind that the origin of the word "wrath" refers to vibration. The vibration of Divine Order intensifies, seeking to become a standing wave carrying the whimsical nature of the carefree person on Earth to the great beyond. While all goes well in the long run, it would be a whole lot easier to just get there from here, once the path becomes clear.

Chariklo

In today's world, the term "boundary" defines the receptivity we have to others or the resistance we put up to others. When encountering new people, what is your criteria for establishing connection? Does it work? If you are pushing away people you'd like to have in your life, perhaps resetting your boundaries is in order. If you're experiencing conflict with a friend, family member, co-worker, boss or your mate, perhaps redefining your boundaries would help. But where do you go for understanding these instinctive urges and reactions you're having to others? Help is at hand.

Chariklo, the sea nymph wife of the powerful healer Chiron, connects you with your greater unconscious and soul urges. She represents your awareness of both your emotional and spiritual boundaries. And in so doing, she works to improve all your relationships by clarifying what is and what is not acceptable to your spirit. Your emotional boundary would be how close you permit another person to stand near you, whether consciously interacting or not. It would also show up as your claim of your physical and emotional needs from another person. She further represents your receptivity to the emotional claims/demands of others.

The spiritual boundary carries the urge for divine kinship. Here you seek someone with common causes, inspired aspirations and shared views of the Universal - a real kindred spirit. These separate boundaries may or may not be the same dimension. And they might be different with every person you meet. Chariklo represents the qualities of compassion, tolerance and forgiveness in unlimited proportion. She questions intent and examines motivation in a gentle, curious manner. She encourages you to start with yourself. Check intent and motive. If it feels good, proceed. If it does not bring a warm sense within its midst, then make corrections.

She bears the sacred marriage between body and soul. Chariklo represents the wedding known as the acceptance of one's spirit by the body. She offers soul retrieval and recovery, bonding ceremonies and energetic healing as her clarity-producing gifts. This clarity opens the doors for shedding the light of understanding toward all people. Then, you are clear to become a vehicle of helping others understand their own boundaries by your shining example.


Chari not found Square Sun,  Orb: 0 deg. 54 min.

You are a master at allowing others enough space. Oddly, others can't seem to return the favor. As a result, you instinctively reflex into rapid retreats. This backward movement creates a psychic suction that pulls the approaching party even closer. You must draw a hard line. Know when to say "No." Say so firmly, but fairly. You understand that chastising the ignorant produces no good. You must educate those around you as to your needs - especially the needs of ego and energy. Should you not use these boundary-setting drills, you'll attempt to give others enough rope to hang themselves by messing with your energy. This knotted approach requires tedious untangling later. Once you get the drift of keeping your own space clear, you become an expert in such matters. You then fall into situations in which others need similar demarcation lines drawn in the sands of sensitivity. Your best results appear when you have them "do" something to indicate their positions. Literally, draw those lines. Use extended arms to show space needs. With these abilities in place and your own energy perpetually protected, you shine even amongst flaring egos.

Chari not found Quincunx Uranus, Orb: 1 deg. 40 min.

You can go about it a couple of different ways. You can use the principle of command by negation: "do so, until you're told not do so." This can be done either noisily, which brings negation sooner, or quietly. You can intentionally transgress to see if you can get away with it. Or you can pursue the things you must with diligence because your spirit's at stake. You can also conduct your personal experiments of energy, either for the greater good or your own amusement. Energy experiments consist of focusing the electrical intention of your spirit directly at the forehead of someone you think ought to be coming through for you. But there is a level of intent and responsibility for your beamed intent. Energy is energy and energy is physical. Beaming energy at another person is an act in the primal, physical world. No need acting surprised or "Who, me?" when challenged by response to your energetic transmission. The optimal use of this pattern is to encourage people (mostly yourself) to lead with an energy that clearly defines the desired outcome. This direction prevents misdirection and creates balance within your energy field. Your energy speaks clearly of your intent. Should this feel askew, go back to the urge of the soul and beam it through your being into the airwaves. No need to break any protocol - especially that of your spirit's need to sing.

Hylonome

When losses of life, failures or those things not attained override one's sense of hope, the Centaur Hylonome receives a request for appearance. Should the fiscal losses and relational despair feel overwhelming, call out to this feminine Centaur. When distraught over the ending of a relationship in which you had no control over the outcome, use Hylonome.

Hylonome lost her mate during a Centaurian debacle. She was so distressed and unwilling to cope after his death, that she thrust herself on the spear that killed him. So, she appears in our lives not as an indication of hopelessness, but to provide the will to overcome the mountain of insurmountable grief. She appears to provide hope in the darkness of loss. She encourages grief, howsoever painful. She promises that if you let yourself feel the scary feelings of personal, emotionally thick endings, that you will, in time, feel relief.

Whether consciously or not, persons with strong Hylonome aspects function as grief counselors. They offer hope and encouragement to all downtrodden sorts. Of course, to be able to render such precise care, they first must have shed the negativity of all losses perceived in their own life first. These people encourage rebuilding of self-esteem, repair diminished egos and point out a healthy spiritual self-sufficiency.


Hylon not found Square Sun,  Orb: 0 deg. 54 min.

Whatever it is, you have a knack for it. You show up and somehow if there are any feelings hiding or lying submerged below the surface, they pop up. It might just be that you have something going on in your life that rubs salt in the wound of another person. Maybe you've got a great love thing happening. You show up somewhere and sit next to the one person who recently got dumped. Naturally, you'll make some observation like, "Ain't love grand?" Next thing you know, the person next to you uses your shirt as a crying towel. Your mere presence provokes a strong emotional response. Ultimately, this will be healing. Perhaps the other side of the coin carries the motto, "Grief is good." When you decide that you're in an emotional funk, specifically dealing with relationship loss or pain, you are simply inconsolable. No one can offer you anything that makes sense or relieves your emotional intensity. Finally, you get through it. And this happens by full and complete submersion in the feeling. You get to carry an ID card with this expertise noted. So now when you accidentally provoke the difficult emotions of another person, you know exactly what to do because you've been there yourself.

Hylon not found Quincunx Uranus, Orb: 1 deg. 40 min.

You might claim that you cannot deal with the onslaught of changes life deals you. Whether based in friendships lost or evolving beyond previous relationship companions, or even love issues in the usual ways, you sense life constantly summons you to adjust. And it does. So, adjust you do. Each time you end up a little better for the changes forced upon you. The idea of perpetual adjustment ultimately comes to not concern you at all. That is your key. Change affects all relationships all the time. Should you resist and fear the changes as if it implies the ending of the matter, it just might represent the conclusion of the interaction. And if you integrate the changes, chances are, the relationship grows - and just might stick around. Should a relationship end, you take an easier track and allow yourself to settle into the shifts that life provides. Grief passes. With no anxiety about what is yet to come, emotional ease refreshes all relationships, especially those you care about the most. Grief gone, with nothing to fear, the clarity needed to enjoy all aspects of love in life returns fully and completely.




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