He shut me out - What's going on?

Dear Astro Auntie:

Q: I would like to know why did he shut me out and abruptly stop calling? Was he hiding something? He had mentioned one of his family members was having hallucinations, was he talking about himself? My birthday is March 11, 1986 born at 10:10pm and his birthday is October 9, 1985? Will he contact me ever and tell me why he stopped calling? Please help, this is eating me up inside!!

A: You’ve had an intense time where love and relationships are concerned with both mysterious Pluto and mature Saturn testing your Venus over the past 6 months. The intensity of the planetary energies has peaked and the next few weeks help bring you back down to ground about relationships, trust and intimacy. Try to take what you’ve experienced recently about relationships and turn it into lessons for love.

With Pluto, sometimes things aren’t what they seem, with truth often buried beneath passion. If you’re suspicious about betrayal or lies, find out more before you make any commitments, but remember, no matter how much you love someone, you still can’t control or force them.

Saturn helps you grow up about love and men, and see the reality of a situation rather than the fairytale. What December has shown you re a particular love situation is quite close to the truth of it, even if it hasn’t turned out how you wanted.

Pluto can bring out tendencies to be obsessive about love and passion so try to remain in control of your own feelings. Think back to your choices in this situation and see where you gave your power away or held onto it too tightly. Pluto/Venus is one of the most intense love transits you can experience. It can help you overcome insecurities and gain strength about where, when and how to trust.

2010 brings triggers from lucky Jupiter, who often brings opportunities and new experiences. Jupiter is in Pisces from mid January. With your progressed Venus now in Taurus, you have great prospects going forward for solid, reliable romances. Don’t forget to embrace the free spirited, spontaneous part of yourself – with a Mars/Uranus link in your birth chart you really can be a little wild and love the thrill of adventure.