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Help Me Holiday! He's a Cheater!

by D. Light September 22, 2009 08:19 AM EST

Dear Holiday,

I caught my guy macking on a blonde in a dive bar in our neighborhood. This was OUR HANGOUT! I don't know if I'm more mad that he was cheating, or that he was cheating at a place where I know everyone and they know me. I mean, that took a lot of nerve! Ok, well he was pretty drunk and he says it didn't mean anything and didn't go any further than kissing. And the girl was real aggressive. Should I end it anyway? We've been together for 5 years. FIVE YEARS! He's a Sagittarius, I'm a Cancer. And who knows, or cares, what the stupid bimbo was. 

Signed,

MAD AS HECATES!

Dear Mad,

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He wasn't looking to have a sneaky affair, or he wouldn't have chosen a place where he was sure to be caught. Sounds like this was a spur-of-the-moment indiscretion meant to get your attention. Danger loving Sagittarius men do need a lot of excitement and are willing to go further than most for a thrill.

This is a great time for you to take a break. Cancer women are working on restoring their sense of autonomy and proving to themselves that they can be self-sufficient in every way, including emotionally.

Obviously it's not your fault that he was a very bad man in that moment. But it's a good time to look objectively at your relationship to consider what each person needs and wants and how you might be better able to fulfill those wants and connect with one another

So get some breathing room, but do consider reconnecting later. You'll have a productive conversation after Mercury enters the relationship realm of Libra on October 9th. 

Yours,

Holiday

 
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