On May 20th the sun will enter talkative Gemini. This is the perfect month to increase communication in your relationship. If you've been through difficulties with your partner recently, use the sun's energy to increase your ability to open up to one another.
First, make sure YOU take the initiative. You can't sit back and wait for your sweetie to open up to you. Express your desires to them first, and hopefully, they will follow your lead.
Secondly, talk about why you're opening up now. Did something happen recently? An event in particular that's making you want to reach a deeper level? Tell him or her why you're coming to them now.
Next, be HONEST and OPEN! Honesty is the best policy always. Talk about your feelings. Talk about your greatest hopes and your deepest fears. Don't be afraid to talk about anything with the one you love. They'll appreciate you that much more for it.
Finally, LISTEN! Don't ever tune out your loved one, especially if it's something you don't want to hear. It's possible your loved one could come to you at the worst time to talk during the day, also. Don't shut them out. This is a moment that you can build upon to reach a deeper level of intimacy. Don't take it for granted!
Sherene Schostak is a Jungian psychotherapist, author and metaphysician who specializes in helping creative artists transform their addictions and blocks. She has been in private practice in New York City for the past 13 years consulting, writing and... read more