Is he the one? Will I be happy? Can our relationship last? Are we sexually compatible? Chinese astrology can provide insight for every aspect of your love life –- no matter if you’re already in a relationship or simply seeking one.
So you met a sexy stranger at a party last night. Should you give him the green light? Using Chinese astrology as guidance, you could discover that -- based on your Chinese animal sign -- you’re in luck. For example, it could just so happen that yesterday was favorable for romance for you, and that the party took place during an auspicious hour.
Then, if you take a look at the big picture, your chart might indicate that romance is strong at this point in your life, and that your chi (energy) level is above average now. If you look even deeper, you can better understand just what it is about him that appeals to you.
But first, how well do you understand yourself? What kind of guy are you looking for? Is a macho man your cup of tea, or would you prefer a sensitive new-age guy? Love the outdoors? A man born under the sign of the Horse may be just right for you. Fine dining? Try a Sheep sign. Are you all about fun and games? A Monkey man would be the perfect fit for you.
And let’s not forget the bedroom. Are you into fetishes? You might give the Rooster a try. Cuddling? A Pig or Snake is likely to keep you warm during cold, winter nights. Want something other than the missionary position? Check out the Monkey!
Fast forward: Time has passed and things are going great with the sexy stranger (well, not a stranger anymore!) Time to set a date. Your wedding is one of the most important occasions of your life. Consult the Chinese Almanac to choose an auspicious date and hour.
After several happy years together, you decide to have a child. A strong bond with your bundle of joy is no doubt a top priority. Next year’s Tiger baby is likely to develop a strong attachment with his Dog or Horse mom. Or, if you are a Sheep, it would be wise to wait until the following year, as a Rabbit baby should win your heart.
More time passes, and now you’re into that all-important eighth year of marriage. Sure, there have been the usual disagreements and stresses, but nothing is seriously threatening your relationship. Still, is there something you could do to make it even better? Take a look at the Element mix between you and your partner. Perhaps there isn’t much Water element in your two charts, which would indicate that you both need make an extra effort when trying to communicate to one another.
Sherene Schostak is a Jungian psychotherapist, author and metaphysician who specializes in helping creative artists transform their addictions and blocks. She has been in private practice in New York City for the past 13 years consulting, writing and... read more