Is over-thinking ruining your sex life? Try these ideas for getting out of your head and into the bed …
Leo: Do You.
You're an artist in the bedroom. And like most artists, you tend to gather influences from other places to use in your own work. In the case of sex, you look to media for cues about what might be effective. The only problem is that most sexy media is retouched, surgically enhanced, and otherwise stylized to the point that it has very little to do a real life example of human sexuality.
When you compare yourself to Victoria Secret models or other sex professionals, you may not measure up as you'd like to. What you have to remember is that those professionals are not on the date with you. So no one is comparing your body or moves to theirs except you in your own head.
So get the comparisons out of your head and revel in your own unique beauty. That's the moment you'll start to have fun, and your partner will follow suit. Or, more likely unsuit.
Always the giver, and ever vigilant to make the gift a good one, Virgo is the sign voted most likely to do the "helicopter" in the bedroom. You know the move, right? It was better known after a reference in the book How To Lose a Guy, which featured a hilarious stick figure illustration. And while it might not be the fastest way to "lose" said "guy," trying too hard in the bedroom could certainly contribute to you losing your orgasm.
When you're having trouble loosening up, go into receiving mode. Your partner will be turned on by your response to pleasurable stimulus -- but only if you let yourself relax and enjoy it. Remember that you don’t have to DO anything. Just let it happen, or not happen. In receiving mode your body and primal instincts will guide the action instead of your knowledge of the Karma Sutra. Nature takes over and you become her dancer.