Loosen Up, Libra and Scorpio!

Is over-thinking ruining your sex life? Try these ideas for getting out of your head --and into bed!


Libra: Go Glam
Ruled by Venus, you’re a creature of beauty compelled to adornments that echo your own loveliness. Like the legendary seductress, Cleopatra, your instinct to dazzle has the potential to leave your lovers dazed and confused about anything that doesn't have to do with pleasing you. So go there. Don’t hold back.

Whatever bedroom accoutrements appeal to you, let yourself have them. Get the Brazilian or bedazzle your bush. If a pricy skin treatment or a mud bath makes you feel delectable, the expense is worthwhile. Body glitter, eyelash enhancers and of course exotic underwear -- whatever makes your inner vixen shimmer with excitement.

Taking charge of your sexual image and enjoying your preferred preparatory enhancements will help you feel gorgeous and ready for fun.


Scorpio: Reframe
If you think some of your sexual inclinations are kinky, just do a quick Google search of "weird sexual practices in different cultures" and prepare to be offended. Or not. Wife swapping, bisexuality, garments, strange fetishes and rituals …

Every culture has their own ideas about what is outside the bounds of "normal" sexuality. And yet, these ideas don't always match up with what is interesting, appealing or pleasurable to the individuals within the culture.

Chances are, you were brought up with the idea that certain sexual practices are acceptable, and others are appalling. And yet, being the great truth seeker of the zodiac, Scorpio, you also probably realize that these definitions are completely fabricated.

So don't get too hung up on the rules. What is taboo in one setting is de rigueur in another context. What matters is what feels good to your partner and, oh yeah -- YOU!