Lunar Seduction Secrets: Aquarius Moon on Monday ... Yawn.

The Aquarius Moon is notoriously bad for romance. Not that anything horrible happens for love -- the Aquarius Moon doesn't inspire fits of rage or cause lovers to betray one another. No, it doesn't inspire much of anything at all regarding passion, and that's the problem. It is romantically indifferent. And indifference is the enemy of seduction.

The Aquarius Moon is friendly. So very friendly. This is a congenial aspect is usually accompanied by a pleasant, affable mood -- warm exchanges, everyone getting along. It is the Moon that can turn lovers into friends, or more specifically into "just friends."

But have no fear -- there is a way to avoid the neutralizing influence of the Aquarius Moon and even to leverage it in your seduction.

Aquarius Moon Seduction Secret: Master the art of detachment.

If you have put your time and energy into launching a proper seduction, you obviously have an end in mind -- you want to attain the undying love and perpetual attention of your object of desire.

The Aquarius Moon challenges you to forget about that goal, at least temporarily. Affirm to yourself that you'll move on to different adventures with or without your object of affection. If you don't get the relationship you want, so be it. You'll still be you, and you'll feel fantastic about who you are. Either way, all will be well in your world.

In a sense, you agree to honor the will of the other person, as well as the role of fate. You say, "It goes how it goes."

The dance of love is a push-pull dance. The Aquarius Moon is a time to pull back and let the other person feel the space where you once were. And if your prior seductive efforts have been at all effective, this detachment will, of course, drive the object of your affection quite crazy.