Q: My ex and I broke up last July. We had a really strong relationship but I kind screwed it up with error in judgement. Now he doesn’t trust me but I still love him very much. Even though it seems like he has a new girlfriend, is there any chance of us getting back together? Does he still think of me? Or should I just forget about him and move on?
A: Since you’ve had Neptune energising your relationship point, aka the descendant, throughout 2010 it’s no wonder you’ve had trouble seeing clearly where love is concerned. Under Neptune’s 7th House influence you can be confused about love, sometimes getting caught up in fantasy and not focussing on reality. Now that Neptune has moved on from your descendant point you’ll find it easier to get clarity on love and relationships.
Your ex has his Moon in Leo, making him loyal but super sensitive to any kind of rejection. It’s unlikely that he’d take you back if you hurt his pride or betrayed him in any way. He’s currently having a Uranus/Venus transit (active April – September) under which he’ll want his freedom more than anything.
A practical Saturn/Venus influence, active in October shows you may need to put the past behind you and chalk bad choices up to learning experiences. Saturn to Venus shows you’re ready to begin having mature relationships, and that you won’t repeat the mistakes of your past.
Jupiter’s influence through March and April has helped rebuild your confidence and bought a few fun, flirty encounters your way. As long as you’re honest with potential dates, you’ll find there’s plenty to get excited about moving forward.