Q: Hello, I am a Virgo, born August 27, 1988. I am having issues in my love life. I feel as if I have an intense spiritual connection with my ex boyfriend, to the point where I feel his emotional pain, or so I believe. My question is are we going to get back together? Are we meant to be?
A: You are an analytical Virgo, but as you were born under a Full Moon, you have great intuitive powers and emotional insight. Sometimes you will feel as though you can sense other people’s pain; this doesn’t however translate into having to fix it for them. One of the greatest skills you can learn – to improve relationships and future prospects – is discernment. Working out who to help and who to allow to help themselves is one of your big life lessons.
With Venus in Cancer you are often protective of loved ones, wanting to take care of them as a way of showing your affection. While this makes you a caring girlfriend, some men will feel smothered by this. In September and October 2011, serious Saturn links your Venus, helping you grow up about relationship and make more mature, realistic choices with men and dating. As Saturn’s influence has a ring of finality to it, love commitments you make then are likely to be kept, and boundaries honored.
Right now your progressed Moon is in Sagittarius, a sign of freedom and adventure. This is a great time in your life in which to be single and enjoy the best of what life has to offer. Focus on study and travel experiences as a way to gain greater fulfilment.
Chalk your past relationship up to learning and start thinking about what you want to with your future.