Q: Hello, I was born at 4:54 am in Cadillac MI on August 27th, 1988. I keep having these on and off issues with an ex boyfriend. I seriously believe we may be soul mates but we can't ever seem to get things right. I am having such a hard time getting over him and my heart aches for him all the time. Now he is moving away to live the life we always talked about and I fear he may be with another girl. Will our paths cross again? Will I ever get over him? Or do we just need some time and space before we are meant to have that life? I'm so confused.
A: Even though you are a Virgo, you have the Moon in dreamy Pisces, making you a total romantic. Since you were also born under a Full Moon, you have especially strong powers of intuition. You can pick up on what’s going on for others without things being said. To understand the cycles between you and your ex best, we’d need his chart too, however based planetary influences in your chart, here’s what the cycles show.
At the moment, it’s your Mars (men, action, assertiveness) in Aries placement that’s most activated.
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You are in the middle of Saturn/Mars transit (October 2010, May and July 2011). This cycle forces you to see the truth about men and relationships, showing you what’s really going on, not what you’d hoped to be happening. You’ll experience a number of reality checks around men under this cycle, so you can trust that’s what happening now is true and lasting. If this particular ex is leaving, it’s for good and for the best (for both of you, even if you can’t see that now!). The flip side of this is that Saturn/Mars can bring serious, reliable men into our lives (sometimes they’ll be a bit older too), and any promises men make to you during this cycle will also be lasting.
In March 2011 you have lucky Jupiter aspecting your Mars, bringing you attention from men and lots of offers to date. Don’t spend so long worrying about what might have been with your ex that you miss what is happening right now!
Sherene Schostak is a Jungian psychotherapist, author and metaphysician who specializes in helping creative artists transform their addictions and blocks. She has been in private practice in New York City for the past 13 years consulting, writing and... read more