Rocky Relationships

Are you asking yourself if it is time to throw in the towel and leave the relationship you are in? Considering buying some rocky road ice cream instead of having a rocky relationship? Mercury Retrograde is over however we have been in some really funky energy because of Earth’s Ascension that has caused major issues in relationships. I am here to tell you if this is happening for you, it may not be the relationship. It is best to wait the energy out and then decide what to do afterwards. That way there are no regrets later.

For most people the way this is showing up is long ago settled issues are showing up. Old habits are coming back. Also, communicating on two different levels, almost like you are having two different conversations at the same time. The problem is that only one of you in the relationship can see something is out of whack and the other person may be thinking that you are making too much out of nothing. I would suggest instead of questioning yourself that you first have a little chat with your highest Angels and ask them what is going on. Ask specific questions like, “Is this a true relationship problem?” “Is this an energy issue causing us to have problems?” When you get your answer, you can proceed. If it is a relationship problem, then you can comfortably proceed with a decision if it is worth staying in the relationship or if it is time to move on and getting some of that rocky road ice cream instead. If it is an energy issue, then it’s best to wait out the energy.

How do you do that? For the easiest path through this kind of energy, you will be doing a lot of deep breathing, not reacting and forgiveness; of your partner and yourself. Try not to get sucked into the drama that seems to be unfolding around you. It will move out of your life easily once the energy is complete, if you don’t hook into it. Notice those words; “seems to be” and “if” in the previous sentences. This energy is making things seem real but they don’t become real unless we feed into them.

Moving forward, you can ask your Angels if the Ascension energy is complete every few days. Hopefully, you will be able to see a noticeable calming in the relationship without having to ask. But if you don’t, you know you can keep checking in with the Angels for the answer.

As we continue to evolve into a higher collective consciousness and Mother Earth makes her changes, we will be affected by new kinds of energy never experienced before. Remember the key to having no regrets is first communicating with your Higher Self / Angels / Soul to find out as much insight about your situation to make a conscious decision. It may be that rocky road ice cream is the way to go however, what if there are regrets later? It is worth taking a moment and asking your Angels what is happening in your relationship.

Blessings of vanilla, chocolate or strawberry ice cream to eat with your sweetheart, ~ Christina