I've been dating this guy for almost a year. He’s a Capricorn; I'm a Gemini. Lately, I've been wondering if our personalities are going to clash in the long run. We recently had our first argument and I came off as a bit head stronger than he thought I actually was. Is there any advice you could give me on how to deal with him emotionally? The argument was over something he did that I did not agree with. Sometimes I think that he’s prone to cheating, because majority of his friends are females. But he assures me that he will not. I am kind of at a crossroads. Any ideas?
First off, the thing to know is that compatibility is based on more than just one’s Sun sign. It’s a whole mix of signs, which includes Rising Sign (public persona), Moon Sign (emotions) and planets. I believe all signs can get along, it’s just about the varying obstacles. As for you and your honey, know that as a Gemini you’re prone to battle with “the grass is always greener” tendencies. As it goes, you're the sign of the Twins, and options are your thing. If you didn’t wonder if he would cheat, you would wonder if you would be happier elsewhere. That is your curse – and your blessing; it also makes you work harder to try out new things in a relationship.
Of course, being that you are a curious, smooth-talking Gemini, stoic Capricorn isn’t your easiest match, as they deal with emotions on a lo-fi wavelength. He’ll often respond a slowly to any passionate displays, but that’s not to say you can’t be who you are. But if you’re feeling like you have to compromise yourself in who you are to deal with him, this is a red flag.
As for the issue about cheating, trust your gut. Sure, it’s possible for guys to have female friends, but if you think on some level that something is suspicious, then you need to trust your feelings. After all, your peace of mind is a priority in any relationship, but mostly importantly with yourself -- which should be the number one relationship in anyone’s life!
Love, Love, Love,
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