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Sex Signs: Just a Booty Call?

by Kiki T. January 30, 2012 12:20 AM EST
Sex Signs: Just a Booty Call?

Kiki,
I’m a Pisces. I met an Aries male on a dating website about six weeks ago. We have been meeting every week for sexual hookups. I haven't asked him any questions, other than why doesn't he have a GF. He says he doesn’t want a commitment right now. I’ve been maintaining my distance and pretty much not calling or texting, waiting for his lead.

When we are together sexually, I let him take control and I submit, unless he asks me to lead. We have awesome chemistry and I want more from him, but I know he’s not interested in that now. Days go by after we are together before I hear from him and I’m certain he’s not exclusive. It kills my Pisces nature to not call him or text him, I know it will kill any chance for me to have more with him … When it comes to hooking up, I try to keep things fresh and exciting by dressing sexy and treating him like the man he is. My fear is that I just won’t hear from him anymore one day ... should I be doing something different? TY for ur help and advice.
-- Pisces

Pisces,
It’s always a red flag when you feel like you can’t truly be yourself with a man, in fear that he’ll go away. You shouldn’t have to fight to call or text, or skywrite his name over his job if you feel it -- that’s what love is about. If you want to express yourself, a guy who doesn’t like it is not your cup of tea. After all, if he likes you, he likes you, with no games. Aries guys like things fresh and new, and so you can bet all your theatrics in the boudoir are stimulating him. But chances are, if that is all he is looking for you’re basically giving out a show for free and holding back your emotions as collateral, with someone that isn’t looking to pay a dime.

You’re not doing anything wrong -- except going after the wrong guy! Sure, the sex is great, but so what? What you want is the emotional connection, so be honest with yourself. If an Aries guy is not committing fast, he will likely never. They’re action warriors and like to claim their turf when they want something, no playing games to prolong victory. The longer you stay in this sexual limbo, the more you become just a booty call. Face your fears! If you want a relationship, it’s best you don’t hear from him again. Plus, you have Mars, the planet of passion, in your commitment house now until July 3, giving you excellent energy to find an equal match -- but only when you are ready.

Love, Love, Love,
-- Kiki

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