I am the sign of sex; Scorpio and I have no sex drive! I was in a great relationship last year, but then it ended suddenly when he flipped out. The sex was great. I loved it -- it was the best. We really connected emotionally. Then, just recently, I started seeing a woman -- you know, experimenting, and well, she was worse than any guy I dated. He is a Pisces. She is an Aries. Is it them or is there something wrong with me?
-- Dried Up
As a Scorpio, you’re an intense sign of extremes; you go all or nothing. So, it’s okay to have hit a sexual slump in your life, and test the waters all around. You’ve gone out and had sex, but still felt unfulfilled. Hello! This just sounds like you have hit a place in your life that sex without emotion isn’t what floats your boat -- a sign of a personal evolution!
Having stepped out of a great relationship, there are new things one must consider -- the sex and feelings part is the biggest of all of them … and once you step into the world of love, nothing is ever the same. So, the bottom line: don’t pressure yourself to feel like you have to live up to your astro reputation as a 24-7 vixen that can’t think beyond her genitals. The universe is telling you to focus on yourself and other priorities. Allow yourself to go through all your emotions and realize that maturing your sexual attitude is just like wine -- it makes lovemaking better and more refined! Plus, this week Venus went into Scorpio, with Mercury and the Sun to follow, so it is about focusing on yourself and knowing that, no matter what, loving yourself is always a good thing!