I’m a Libra and my man is a Gemini. We are very different, but the same. We both are anxious and have a tendency to be quite anal. I try not to let it get to me, whereas he can’t. However, I'd like to think that we're both fun-loving and outgoing. It's just his anxiety about little things. If he loses something, it has to be found immediately. If it can't be found, he will immediately replace it. I am tired of dumping out all of my stuff in my purse, duffel bag, etc., or opening my car/room/whatever to find what he will inevitably find in five minutes with some basic searching. My deal: how do I handle him making a mountain out of nothing? Will he ever change? I hate picking up on his anxiety and then five minutes later, he's over it and I'm all stressed out!
-- Attempting to Chill
Sorry, but Gemini's are by nature a bit OCD and they have to have their little quirks to function in their own way. Plus, as a mercurial sign, they are run by their little nervous energy and will always like to be buzzing around with something that makes their mind all wound up. It’s just the nature of their game and they all suffer from it at varying degrees. Of course, yours does sounds like he is more at the extreme level of it and for that, yes, you will need the patience of a saint to get you through.
Ironically, you are a Libra, the sign of balance, and you always inevitably wind up balancing out whom you are with on some level. So, that tends to mean easily getting sucked into another’s insanity to diffuse their energy. But you should also remember you are the sign of harmony, and realize this is how he is and not let it affect you. Be entertained by his strange behavior instead, as this is the only way it might be endearing for you. Otherwise, allowing yourself to be the yin to his wacky yang and having it disrupt your peace of mind will eventually get your tired and have your eye wandering for more relaxing shores.