I am so confused, lost and upset. I just found a stash of gay porn in my fiance’s closet. We are set to get married this year. How do I confront him? I am so bad about this stuff -- I’m a Libra and you know we hate fighting. Anyway, I don’t suspect my boyfriend is gay, but who knows? I am hoping they aren’t his … but why would he have a stash of gay porn? It is mixed with some straight, but mostly gay.
Honey, you have to swallow your fears and ask! If you are going to get married, then you are going to have to expect honesty from him and be able to talk about anything. You are making a lifelong commitment to bind your life with his and you are scared to ask what the deal is with the gay porn? That alone has red flags all over it. Sure, it’s a shock at first, but there could be plenty of reasonable and fair explanations. So he might have some gay porn -- so what? Perhaps he is curious and a bit bi, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. Everyone has curiosities and for him, perhaps the only way he can explore his homosexual desires is through porn. There is nothing wrong with that -- if that is the case.
If not, and he is closeted without being able to deal, then you need to find out. No matter what, you should get an explanation for this -- after all, being his soon-to-be-wife, you are entitled to know about his sexual desires. Don’t jump to the worst conclusions. Be open to hear what he has to say. If this bothers you, and there’s nothing more you want to know, then you have to take that into consideration too … But it’s good that you’ve made this discovery, because waking up in your 15th year of marriage and being told you are being left for another man would be a lot worse. Be bold and remember: Libra is the sign of justice too, not jut passive harmony. Ask and let that truth set you free!
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