Want to heat things up for a sizzling night with your lover? The tarot can provide insight on what turns both of you on and gets you ready for steamy encounters between the sheets.
Though foreplay might seem like it’s simply an appetizer in the feast of love, when you skip over it, the main course can seem a bit lacking. By drawing on the elemental signatures in the four suites of the tarot, you can learn how to ensure that both you and your partner are aroused and ready on those nights when you want to connect more intimately.
Read the descriptions of each Foreplay Type below and decide which one most fits you and your partner as well. Then use the tips to plan an evening to remember!
Earth/Pentacles Foreplay Type
This type loves to be wined and dined as part of their foreplay. They enjoy massage, hugs and plenty of physical affection. As a sensual creature, the Earth/Pentacles Type will warm up when their senses are fully sated.
Tips: Provide them with a gourmet meal, good music, pleasant smells and plenty of pleasing touch. If you really want to ensure that this type is fully ready to go, try giving them a foot massage with scented lotion or oil.
Fire/Wands Foreplay Type
Passion, excitement and adventure about sums it up for the Fire/Wands type. This person loves to be creative and spontaneous in the bedroom, trying on new personas and positions. Spicy and a little wild, the Fire Type appreciates it when you let your inner animal out.
Tips: Try meeting the Fire/Wands Type at a new location dressed up in something sexy or alluring. Surprise them with a new toy or special gift. Role playing and other more adventurous sexual games will also likely appeal to this type.
Air/Swords Foreplay Type
This brainy and intellectual person is turned on when their mind is stimulated. Good conversation, interesting ideas and a witty banter will get them ready to move toward the bedroom in no time. Though PDA may not be part of their repertoire, you can seduce them with your words.
Tips: Send the Air/Swords Type sexy texts and emails, as they enjoy phone sex like no other. Find erotic books and stories they might appreciate and send them before your date.
Water/Cups Foreplay Type
Romantic and emotional, the Water/Cups Type wants to feel emotionally connected before they can connect with you in other ways. They need to feel a sense of destiny and purpose in your union, or at least a powerful energetic pull before they will drop their guard. They are sensitive to the undercurrents of every situation and therefore can change their minds in mid-stream, reversing their former position.
Tips: Magnetize them with plenty of sustained eye contact and long looks. Say little, but make what you do say mean something. The Water/Cups Type appreciates gentle but deep physical contact and plenty of kissing.