It's not like your man has some secret agenda for Valentine's Day. Still, he may have some unaddressed needs -- either conscious or subconscious -- that will continue to go unmet until one of you addresses them. (Hint: It's not going to be him!)
ARIES: He wants to know he's the best you've ever had.
Go ahead and drive this point home by telling him about it mid-orgasm.
TAURUS: He wants you to understand his competitive instinct.
So what if he brags to his friend about his best golf score? If you roll your eyes, you're bound to deflate his manly ego. Instead, be his proud cheerleader and make him feel like a trophy-carrying king.
GEMINI: He wants your undivided attention.
Maybe he's the worst culprit when it comes to responding to a text or taking an ill-advised phone call in the middle of your date. But if you opt for the high road and show him your one-track mind, he'll get right onboard.
CANCER: He wants you to let him help.
Even when you can do it all by yourself ... and especially when you can do it all by yourself. By allowing him to assist, he'll be able to enter your world and feel as if he's playing an important role.
LEO: He wants more sex.
Don't worry, this won't infringe too much on your lifestyle. Quickie sex, spur-of-the-moment sex, right-before-you-fall-asleep sex ... it's all good for him as long as you enjoy it, too.
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VIRGO: He wants your love to be the prize at the end of a maze.
So, why not remove the predictability factor? When and how is he going to get the incomparable prize that is you? To make it mysterious, don't give it to him right out of the gate. Let him hunt, think and figure it out for himself.
LIBRA: He wants you to agree with him ... even when you know he's wrong.
On the trifling matters, it's better to be loyal and supportive than a fact-monger who's always correcting him. This goes double when others are present!
SCORPIO: He wants to be introduced to your kinky side.
Come on, you know she's lurking in there somewhere. Whatever desire you have that's outside the realm of polite conversation will be of major interest to him. Go ahead and indulge your man -- if only for this one day.
SAGITTARIUS: He wants you to be up for all his adventures.
From hang gliding to exploring the Andes -- or even just accompanying him on a business trip to New York -- if you're good to go, you're his girl.
CAPRICORN: Your unconditional (non-critical) support.
That means saying, "Yeah, go for it -- you can do it!" ... even when you're not so sure. He's much stronger and more able than he sometimes gives himself credit for. Your encouragement will supply him with the energy to try harder.
AQUARIUS: He wants you to humor his oddball interests.
So he likes comic books or rare guitars, or he's obsessed with robot probes on Mars. All the better for you! If you're willing to learn about them, his quirky interests will be entry points to a very special bond.
PISCES: He wants more mystery.
He's a romantic, and of course, romance is all about yearning. So how can either of you yearn when you're constantly together? If you develop your own identity outside of him, it will put a good kind of distance between you ... and will also make him wonder what you're up to.
Stephanie Gailing combines her knack for astrological insights with her background as a nutrition/wellness consultant, guiding clients towards self-awareness, personal empowerment, and optimal well-being. She’s the author of Planetary... read more