Your Approach to Seduction

Seduction is a tantalizing art, one that comes easy for some and remains a mystery to many. However, if you learn how to tap into your own personal style of seduction, you may find that this skill is easier to develop than you might think. Tarot can offer you clues as to which approach is best for you (and your lover!). Read the suggestions below and then plan your own special seduction scenario.

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Earth/Pentacle Suite
Your seduction style is practical and grounded. You like to express your interest in tangible ways. Since words are not your strong point when it comes to seduction, keep your actions on the physical plane. You will succeed when you show them, rather than tell them how you feel.
Seduction Tips: Offer a hand, foot or neck massage. Cook their favorite food. Help them with a practical project like shopping.

Air/Swords Suite
You seduce with your charming and witty communication skills. Your strength is in your ability to tell your lover exactly how you feel in a way that intrigues them even more. Though practical actions and follow through may be a little challenging for you, your way with words should get you where you want to be!
Seduction Tips: Write them a poem, email or even a text that is funny and sexy. Ask them lots of questions about themselves and demonstrate your interest in what they have to say. Play word games with them like Scrabble or Boggle.

Fire/Wands Suite
Your seduction style is creative and passionate, since you truly know how to sweep the object of your affection off their feet. Since details and practicality are not exactly your strong point, it’s important that you focus on the big picture rather than day-to-day events. You seduce best when you are entertaining or romancing the object of your affection. The more extravagant and over the top you are, the more you will be true to your own personal seduction style.
Seduction Tips: Plan a romantic evening with lots of surprises. In public, dedicate a song, gift or other offering to your date. Be spontaneous and act on your impulses.

Water/Cups Suite
Deep and mysterious, your style of seduction is intuitive and intimate. You are able to forge a spiritual connection with your lover, catalyzing a magnetic pull towards you that they will find hard to resist. Because this magic is hard to put into words, you do best when you use art or music to show your feelings.
Seduction Tips: Create a work of art or a song for your intended lover, one that is inspired by your feelings for them. Candlelight dinners with plenty of chances for long, smoldering looks will work in your favor.