Charming, outgoing and popular, extroverted men can be lots of fun to be around. They love to spend time with large groups of people and are great entertainers and social magnets. Though these social butterflies may need lots of external stimuli to keep their engines revved, chances are they’re just as enthusiastic about spending time alone with you.
You can learn more about what type of extrovert you have on your hands by utilizing the symbolism of tarot cards.
The Court Cards of the tarot describe the basic behaviors and patterns of how most people act in relationships. Men and masculine energy are described by the Knights and Kings of the Tarot. The suit or element of each Knight or King (earth/pentacles, water/cups, fire/wands and swords/air), fine-tunes the expression of this male energy. Extroverted, outgoing and gregarious personalities fall under the suits of Swords and Wands, while internal, quiet male energy is described by the suits of Pentacles and Cups.
To understand more about which type of extrovert your guy is, first figure out if he is a Knight or a King.
Knights, (usually aged 18-40), are striving to create their place in the world. They want to make their mark and are searching for adventures and new possibilities. Kings, (usually aged 40-80+), are mature, experienced, settled and secure in life.
Then determine if your extroverted guy falls into the Wands or Swords category. Wands men are fiery, passionate and action-oriented. Often athletic, they can have a competitive nature that compels them to win. This romantic extrovert will pull out all stops to impress you, and is not shy about telling you exactly what he wants. Wands men usually have a great sense of humor and are able to keep you laughing over the long term. It can be helpful for them to learn how to cultivate patience and persistence, as they may get easily frustrated when things don’t quickly go their way.
Swords men are intelligent, witty and talkative. This type of extrovert loves to have long debates and discussions, preferably with you. They also appreciate your intellect and enjoy engaging in shared learning experiences and projects. Social gatherings with like-minded others keep them energized as they have opportunities to share new ideas and philosophies. Swords men have active minds that likely keep them busy writing, teaching and planning for the future. Because of this, they can sometimes get so caught up in ideas that they forget everything else. Gentle reminders to pay attention to their head as well as their heart will help them to stay balanced, as will physical activity.
For further insights into your extroverted man, you can turn to the images on the Knight and King of Wands and Swords cards. Look closely at the details of each card and listen for the story that it has to tell you. You may be surprised at the secrets you learn about your man’s personality and habits through Tarot!
The Astrologer's Daughter is a Los Angeles-based writer, astrologer and radio host who has been listening to the music of the spheres since she was 8-years old. She is a UCLA alum and graduate of the Steven Forrest Astrological Apprenticeship... read more