Just when you think you have your relationship or a blossoming romance on the right track your ruler Mercury comes along and challenges even the smallest decision you make. Reality becomes fuzzy on September 17th and continues for the three weeks following. Your ruler Mercury is in the house of you-belong-to-me and the always cautious Virgo may begin to feel just like a spectator in a life that is playing itself out before your eyes. The loss of control can be mind boggling. The Sun and Jupiter are in your own sign and in the midst of a sizzling romance you could be silently examining the difference between love play and playing at love. You may be bringing more of yourself to these sexy late night liaisons and you want to see more devotion coming your way from this significant other or budding love affair, but just don't expect it under the beams of a retrograde. A Lunar Eclipse on September 27th in the place of sexy one-on-one encounters brings steamy energy and intensity, as well as seriousness, to the party. Cut yourself some slack, Virgo. When your ruler is retrograde broken rules are the order of the day. The unpredictability of it all can either drive you crazy or excite you. Choose the excitement.