How are you supposed to get close to this person if they're always going to be aloof when you feel like pouring your heart out? Is this a romance or is this a friendship? Why is it all so unclear? On Wednesday, it's going to occur to you how much your life is up in the air right now, and how nice it would be to find someone you felt strongly about who felt strongly about you in return. Someone who knew how to have fun. The right person, of course, takes time. True, mushy-gushy love happens at its own pace. You've got to be patient.