If you are looking to add some wattage to your sex appeal, open up a book. Sign up for a class. Watch a political documentary. Right now, the person who you want to appeal to is eager to see your more intellectual side. You are already attractive to them on the outside -- but now they want to see what you have to offer on the inside. Your brain is your most important erogenous zone, you know! So study up, and the next time you get into a conversation with them, you'll knock their socks off!