Mars opposite Venus
Mars Opposite Venus Natal
You perhaps fear that you must curb your pleasures to behave in ways that are tamer or restrained for others. It's not that you're always a lustful creature ready to lunge at the first tasty dish or potential sexual partner who comes your way. But you don't like being told who you should like, how or when. For instance, if you come from a very religious family, you might struggle with your sexual nature. Likewise, it's difficult to catch your romantic and pleasurable rhythm with others as there's always some push-pull between you. You feel that things would be so much simpler with others if they just agreed to do what you want! Yet, you arrive at more beautiful and calmer relationships when you recognize and respect that you can negotiate about what you want, without demands, ultimatums, or guile. They can come free and clear with love expressed honestly and without fear of continuous rejection.
Mars Opposite Venus Transit
You're prone to want what you want now, and you're likely not too happy about having to play nice to get it. In fact, playing nice is a game you're not willing to play much more. Yet, there is a difference between boldly going for what you want and "niceties." Being nice can be a way to be inauthentic about what you want in order to keep the peace. Yet, perhaps what you want most is to let some kind of savage beast out that has been denied too long. One expression of this beast might be sexual, but it could also manifest through your appetite or anything else that incites you to ecstasy and pleasure. Perhaps you'd do better to reframe "the beast" as a possibly cuddly aspect of yourself that's become fierce because you've caged it up with too much denial and efforts to keep the peace. You can be more forthright now, but you don't have to shatter the peace.
More Aspects & Transits
Mars
- Mars Conjunct Sun
- Mars Conjunct Moon
- Mars Conjunct Mercury
- Mars Conjunct Venus
- Mars Conjunct Mars
- Mars Conjunct Jupiter
- Mars Conjunct Saturn
- Mars Conjunct Uranus
- Mars Conjunct Neptune
- Mars Conjunct Pluto
- Mars Conjunct Ascendant
- Mars Conjunct Midheaven
- Mars Sextile Sun
- Mars Sextile Moon
- Mars Sextile Mercury
- Mars Sextile Venus
- Mars Sextile Mars
- Mars Sextile Jupiter
- Mars Sextile Saturn
- Mars Sextile Uranus
- Mars Sextile Neptune
- Mars Sextile Pluto
- Mars Sextile Ascendant
- Mars Sextile Midheaven
- Mars Square Sun
- Mars Square Moon
- Mars Square Mercury
- Mars Square Venus
- Mars Square Mars
- Mars Square Jupiter
- Mars Square Saturn
- Mars Square Uranus
- Mars Square Neptune
- Mars Square Pluto
- Mars Square Ascendant
- Mars Square Midheaven
- Mars Trine Sun
- Mars Trine Moon
- Mars Trine Mercury
- Mars Trine Venus
- Mars Trine Mars
- Mars Trine Jupiter
- Mars Trine Saturn
- Mars Trine Uranus
- Mars Trine Neptune
- Mars Trine Pluto
- Mars Trine Ascendant
- Mars Trine Midheaven
- Mars Opposite Sun
- Mars Opposite Moon
- Mars Opposite Mercury
- Mars Opposite Venus
- Mars Opposite Mars
- Mars Opposite Jupiter
- Mars Opposite Saturn
- Mars Opposite Uranus
- Mars Opposite Neptune
- Mars Opposite Pluto
- Mars Opposite Ascendant
- Mars Opposite Midheaven
Venus
- Venus Conjunct Sun
- Venus Conjunct Moon
- Venus Conjunct Mercury
- Venus Conjunct Venus
- Venus Conjunct Mars
- Venus Conjunct Jupiter
- Venus Conjunct Saturn
- Venus Conjunct Uranus
- Venus Conjunct Neptune
- Venus Conjunct Pluto
- Venus Conjunct Ascendant
- Venus Conjunct Midheaven
- Venus Sextile Sun
- Venus Sextile Moon
- Venus Sextile Mercury
- Venus Sextile Venus
- Venus Sextile Mars
- Venus Sextile Jupiter
- Venus Sextile Saturn
- Venus Sextile Uranus
- Venus Sextile Neptune
- Venus Sextile Pluto
- Venus Sextile Ascendant
- Venus Sextile Midheaven
- Venus Square Sun
- Venus Square Moon
- Venus Square Mercury
- Venus Square Venus
- Venus Square Mars
- Venus Square Jupiter
- Venus Square Saturn
- Venus Square Uranus
- Venus Square Neptune
- Venus Square Pluto
- Venus Square Ascendant
- Venus Square Midheaven
- Venus Trine Sun
- Venus Trine Moon
- Venus Trine Mercury
- Venus Trine Venus
- Venus Trine Mars
- Venus Trine Jupiter
- Venus Trine Saturn
- Venus Trine Uranus
- Venus Trine Neptune
- Venus Trine Pluto
- Venus Trine Ascendant
- Venus Trine Midheaven
- Venus Opposition Sun
- Venus Opposition Moon
- Venus Opposition Mercury
- Venus Opposition Venus
- Venus Opposition Mars
- Venus Opposition Jupiter
- Venus Opposition Saturn
- Venus Opposition Uranus
- Venus Opposition Neptune
- Venus Opposition Pluto
- Venus Opposition Ascendant
- Venus Opposition Midheaven